Hey fabulous ladies! I wanted to share something that is so underrated but so important: the importance of having a high value mindset. Being a high value woman is a way of life and it is key to living your best one. So, what is a high value woman? Here are some key points below of what being a high value woman is all about:

• She is emotionally mature and does not overreact in tense situations or take things personally. She maintains control of her emotions.
• She is independent and can take care of herself (although in dating, she can allow a man to lead – more on that in a separate post)
• She is confident and knows who she is, what she stands for and knows her worth. She is secure and knows her value is high and doesn’t need to explain herself to anyone.
• She is kind and has respect for others and treats the people around her with kindness and grace. She is empathetic of other people’s situations.
• She associates herself with like-minded individuals. Your friends reflect who you are, and most often if they have positive energy they will bring you up, but if they have negative energy, they will bring you down. A high value woman knows not to spend too much time with people who take away from her energy.
• She has boundaries and enforces them when needed. Rather than engaging in negative attention or complaining about a situation, she enforces a boundary immediately and removes herself from a negative situation which is no longer serving her. She says no when she needs to and does not do anything that she does not want to do.
• She has goals and ambitions and knows what she wants out of life and goes after it. She has hobbies, passions and interests outside of her friendships, family and relationships and she aspires to seek out what truly drives her.
• She is diplomatic and does not speak her mind’s entirety, but rather thinks things through before she speaks.
• She is elegant and classy and presents herself outwardly in the best way she can, whether it comes to her etiquette, manners or her appearance.
• She takes care of her self both mentally and physically and makes sure her mental health is prioritized and her cleanliness and physical appearance is maintained.
• She relinquishes control of how others respond to her as she knows it is a projection of themselves and understands that the only person she can control is herself.